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强奸乱伦文学 _走进孩子的内心:孩子不需要完美的妈妈

大家好!我目前是一名全职妈妈,我的宝宝刚满2岁。在这里借助头条号的平台跟大家分享带孩子的那些事,我会依据自己日常带孩子的亲身经历以及一些身边的真实案例,总结出一些带宝宝的小方法,希望能帮到你,也欢迎你补充或者发表不一样意见,让我们与孩子们共同成长。

前段时间我在网上无意中看到一句话:你的孩子不需要一个完美的妈妈,他们需要的是一个快乐的妈妈!当时的我瞬间被这句话给感化了,仔细想想...确实如此。妈妈和宝宝之间的关系是最亲密的,在宝宝眼里,妈妈就是他所能依赖的一切,是他安全感的来源。当了妈妈之后基本上的重心都是围绕着宝宝,特别是新手妈妈,面对宝宝经常会手足无措,但是又特别想凡事都做到很好。

走进孩子的内心:孩子不需要完美的妈妈

克制住自己的本能,做一个理性的妈妈。

当妈的都知道,妈妈的本能就是时刻保护自己的孩子,不想让孩子受到一点伤害。在日常生活中,潜意识里对自己要求越来越高,觉得自己必须要做一个全能妈妈,全方位照顾宝宝的一切,每天都会在想自己要怎么做才会做的更好更完美。无形中给自己添加了好多压力,短时间内发现不了其实因为这些压力一直在抑制着自己的情绪,这种情况下,一件小事就会很容易成为引爆点。我记得我有一段时间心情不好,但每天对着宝宝还是很有耐心,抑制住自己的情绪,过了几天,宝宝像往常那样拉着要我按早教机陪她玩,拉了我几次,当时不知道怎么回事我突然就爆发了。过后我反思了自己的行为,我觉得就是因为我太想做完美的妈妈了,觉得不管什么情况下,我都一定要做一个完美的妈妈,当面不能对宝宝发脾气,宝宝睡着后也没有做一些什么事情来缓解一下自己内心的情绪。所以我我觉得我们作为妈妈,不仅要好好照顾宝宝,更要多想想自己。

不要让愧疚感吞噬了真实的自己。

自从有了孩子之后,我也像所有的妈妈一样,希望自己能有分身术,或者有三头六臂。可以事无巨细的照顾宝宝,孩子但凡有点不舒服都会非常的自责,认为是自己没有照顾好孩子。有时做着家务顾不上孩子,孩子不小心磕着碰着,妈妈都恨不得给自己一巴掌。或者有时候孩子调皮捣蛋,忍无可忍冲孩子发了脾气,过后也会非常的自责愧疚。我有一个朋友就是这样,她经常跟我诉苦她家孩子不听话不吃饭又淘气,老是忍不住要动手,过后又好后悔,觉得自己不该打孩子,孩子懂什么呢。每天都会陷入一个循环:宝宝调皮--妈妈责骂--宝宝哭闹--妈妈后悔。妈妈心情不好的时候,不妨先自己一个人待一会儿,把宝宝的事情放在一边,做一些自己喜欢的事情来平缓一下心情。比如看下电影,吃点零食...

妈妈快乐,宝宝才会快乐。

我们整天围着宝宝的吃喝拉撒转,很少考虑到自己的需求,其实在我看来妈妈的需求比宝宝的需求更重要,只有当妈妈真的快乐,才能真正的带好宝宝。宝宝对妈妈的快乐与否也是有感知的,有时候我的宝宝会突然看着我,我只要一对着她笑,她就会马上也对着我笑,而且笑的更开心。所以,我总是认为妈妈的快乐决定着宝宝的快乐。

最后,希望所有的妈妈要学会调节自己的情绪,因为宝宝的内心是不需要完美的妈妈,他们希望自己的妈妈每天都快快乐乐的。

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Between 1971 and 1991, Dan Emmett and partners formed three real estate companies, which collaboratively engaged in the acquisition, development, redevelopment, operation and management of high-quality real estate assets within supply-constrained markets in Los Angeles County. While the early focus was on multifamily properties, the Company's investment focus evolved to include high-quality office properties and complementary retail space in California and Honolulu, Hawaii. Since 1993, Douglas Emmett has acquired a substantial majority of its portfolio through nine institutional funds.

Today, Douglas Emmett, through our interest in our Operating Partnership and its subsidiaries, consolidated JVs and unconsolidated Fundsowns and operates approximately 18.4million square feet of Class A office space and 4,043 luxury apartment units in nine highly desirable submarkets in Los Angeles County, six of which are located in Los Angeles' Westside - Brentwood, Century City, Santa Monica, Beverly Hills, the Olympic Corridor, and Westwood - and three submarkets in the San Fernando Valley - Sherman Oaks/Encino, Warner Center/Woodland Hills, and Burbank. The Company's Honolulu office portfolio is located in the downtown central business district with multifamily properties in nearby suburban communities.

The Company utilizes the same focused business strategy that was implemented by its founding principals - managing, developing, redeveloping and acquiring multifamily and commercial real estate in high barrier-to-entry submarkets that exhibit strong economic characteristics such as population and job growth, as well as inherent supply constraints, such as limited developable land due to natural and political barriers. The Company strives to capitalize on the experience of its seasoned management team to create continued value.

The Company is headquartered in Santa Monica, California.